Who You Seek Is Seeking You, Too

What if there was an abundance of options waiting for you?

A literal line up of eligible bachelors desiring to be with you and honour you?

I can tell you without a doubt that no matter how many good-looking men were in that line, I would choose Jack every damn day.

If you’re in partnership with someone, would you say the same?

One of the questions we’re currently exploring in School of Love’s Inner Circle for women calling in love is how to tap into the feeling that there are OPTIONS!

That they don’t need to cling onto men who aren’t aligned with them.

That they get to sink into trust that who they seek is seeking them, too.

Visualizing this, and feeling this, is key.

It may be tapping into the visual of this lineup, or a sea full of fish, or any image that sparks the feeling of trust and abundance.

It’s also good practice to create an evidence list of what currently feels abundant.

If starting with an evidence list of there being an abundance of good men feels like too much of a stretch at this point, then looking for the abundance in general is the next best step.

This helps to shine a light on the question, “what is my point of reference? What am I most focused on – what’s good, or what’s missing?”

And then comes the very practical application of this mindset.

When dating someone asking,

Does this person support my desired beliefs?

Would I be engaging with this person if I believed there were other options?

How would I navigate this or show up if I knew with certainty there was a sea full of fish?

So, the next time you find yourself asking, where are all the good men, try seeing them right there in front of you – and let the feeling wash over you.

With love,

Diana