There is No One-Size-Fits-All Formula

There is No One-Size-Fits-All Formula

There is no one-size-fits-all strategy or formula for meeting your love.


And this is either going to give you a huge sigh of relief or a huge pang of anxiety – the choice is yours.


I see a lot of things online like “say this one phrase and he will be yours forever” or “do this one thing and he’ll come crawling back to you.”


…I can’t help but have a little chuckle.


Because I know that there is not one thing that works for everybody – beyond choosing the highest perspective of love for yourself and someone else – and that is a very broad statement, I know.


The reason why there is no one-size-fits-all formula is because we are all designed differently. We’re designed to interact differently, to bring our gifts and messages in our own unique ways to this world. 


We all have our individual energy makeup that interacts in its own extraordinary way.


So while one woman can very much go up to a man at a party, strike up conversation and have him turn into the love of her life, that may simply not work for another.


Not because there’s anything inherently wrong with her or she lacks confidence; simply because it’s not the best approach for her.


She might be more of the lighthouse, drawing men to her who then invite her to get to know each other more.


There’s nothing wrong or right about either approach, but there is one that is most empowering for you.


One of the highest questions you can ask yourself is, “what is the most empowered decision I could ever make?”


This answer is going to be different for me than it is for you, based on our unique growing edges, based on our unique strengths and based on the way we’re here to express ourselves, to express our love and to connect with others.


We are not all designed the same.


We do not all have the same DNA or the same energetic makeup.


And this isn’t a bad thing. It’s a fucking beautiful thing.


As we learn to lean into what’s truly most powerful for us as individuals, we can attract more money, more love, more friends, more health, more opportunities, with more ease.


So I hope that when you hear me say, there is no one-size-fits-all strategy, you feel nothing but relief.


Because what that opens up for you is the opportunity to embrace the most empowering approach for you.


And yes, having a Coach or confidant help you through this process of discernment, making it a hell of a lot easier and effective to anchor into your Truth. Find yourself this person (you don’t have to do this life thing alone) and start the journey!


With love,

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